May 27, 2015 by jayce428
I finally wore my collar in public for the first time and it was exhilarating! I wore the black faux leather collar with the chain – which is the only one that fits well. I got some looks but no one really bothered to make comments or question it. I felt that wearing my collar would help other kinksters in my town recognize me as a kinkster. But I read somewhere that a kinkster felt that wearing their collar in public was like pushing their sexuality onto others, and it’s always bothered me – I’ve always believed that sexuality is something that shouldn’t be hidden. I don’t want anyone to believe that I’m in anyway ashamed of my sexuality, because for a long time I was and I don’t want to go back to being ashamed of who I am.
The dogtags was an idea that I thought about awhile ago – someone suggested that at a munch if you aren’t yet collared to have a tag that said ‘uncollared’ or ‘stray’. So I went onto Etsy and found a veteran who makes military grade dogtags for a reasonable price – he is Waytwocool on Etsy. I got a pair of Dogtags that have ‘Jayce’ and ‘Stray Pup’ on them. Please check him out the product that I received was GREAT quality for a reasonable price.