Why we choose BDSM?

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April 17, 2015 by jayce428

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There are various reasons for entering a BDSM based relationships, one of the main being: not being able to fit into a normal or vanilla relationship without still having the nagging feeling of difference.

There is of course the fact that we are imperfect, but there is the other fact that most of our intentions are pure if in fact innocent in nature. I feel that to a certain extent BDSM might actually be better in many ways then vanilla or ‘normal’ relationships such as: loyalty, communication, and intimacy. I know that many vanilla couples insist that they have excellent communication, but when they want to do something different with their sex-life they might hesitate and regret it. Also, with loyalty many people who practice vanilla lifestyles will cheat on their significant other if they’re not getting what they need out of the relationship, but won’t tell their significant other what they need or discuss having an open relationship.

There is also the reality that some of us couldn’t be in vanilla relationship – I have tried dating some people who are completely vanilla, without success because there was no structure and very soon became completely board – needless to say once I found someone my age who was into BDSM things really kicked off and was able to do things that made me quite happy in the relationship, but unfortunately that person had to move and have been looking for a new Daddy or Master.

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