How to Practice BDSM with Your Partner?

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January 4, 2015 by jayce428

bdsm-detective-story-3BDSM is definitely a way to spice up your sex life, but it isn’t synonymous to sex and in many cases no sexual activities are involved. This can be discussed between the Dominant and the submissive/slave/pet.

BDSM TOYS FOR BEGINNERS

  • Flogger – This is so nice since it can be used for light or heavy impact play, so if you haven’t been flogged before you don’t have to dive head deep. These can
  • Feather Teaser – Fun classic for sensation play. Light and fluffy fun.
  • Crop – For any dominant this is a classic toy that can be used for light or heavy impact play on subs or slaves for punishment or for fun.
  • Handcuffs – The classic handcuffs, if you don’t want your sub to cover themselves while their being flogged or while you’re using a crop on them then for easy restraint you can handcuff their hands in front or back.
  • Ball gag – If your sub is making too much noise, you could use a ball gag on them to quiet them down. It’s not suggested to gag them during any negotiations.
  • Blind fold
  • Collar
  • Paddle
  • Sex toys

Many of the suggestions are classic tools and toys to use during play, and many can be made out of household items (ex. A wooden cooking spoon can substitute a paddle), or can be found at your local sex toy store or on online shops.

BEFORE STARTING:

  • Before starting in your adventure firstly you need to establish a safeword or safeaction this will be used when you or your sub needs to stop.
    • Many people use “Yellow” for slow and “Red” for stop which is a pretty universal code.
  • Discuss what’s going to happen during play, and all parties that are going to be involved have to agree to this – in this case it’s not ‘a majority rules’.

KINKY IDEAS FOR DOMS OR SINGLE SUBS

  • Remote control vibrator in public – while in public make the sub wear a remote control vibrator in public, this would be great for while you’re shopping together. It’s more effective if you’re with a Dominant partner, and less effective if your a single sub.

For a list of different ideas click here.

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