Is BDSM sexual?

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November 20, 2014 by jayce428

Just a little side not beside the video Dom/sub relationships aren’t just F/M but also M/M and F/F.

This was just one of the questions listed as ‘to answer’ that I had complied, and I wasn’t 100% sure how to answer it. But now I can absolutely say sometimes… It’s quite a confusing topic because for some sex can be included, but it really depends on your view on what BDSM is for you. It can amount to: a married couple who have a Dom/sub relationship, versus someone who is a live in submissive or pet that only feeds the Doms needs.

Especially for someone who’s relationship is always Master/pet you wouldn’t think about having sex with your pet, well not usually anyway. During kitten or pup play the sub is in the role of a dog or cat maybe all the time or part of the time, and as a pup I wouldn’t be thinking about having sex with any master or any other pet.  As many of the relationship dynamics may vary, the Dom and sub or pet might be married or dating and that would be totally different.

Many practitioners have different views on the subject, and I would demote anyone’s view on the subject. If a couple were in a Dom/sub relationship and had sex during play then that’s their thing, but you can’t just say as a Dom or sub that there has to be sex during. And I wouldn’t allow any Master or Dom to demand that I have sex with them as a pup, because I don’t view a Dom or Master as a ‘partner’ I view them as an owner who is my companion along with other pets he/she might have.

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